In my conversations with job seekers, I frequently see FEAR running their lives. It manifests in:
- Fear of meeting new people
- Extreme introversion
- A depressed tone of voice
- Reticent physical body language
- Unproductive time spent worrying instead of doing
- Unwillingness to get out and work
- Lack of confidence
- Minimizing their accomplishments and achievements
- Fear of trying new strategies to achieve their goals
- Unwillingness to learn new skills and methods
- Worry about financial difficulties
- Hiding at home posting to job boards instead of getting out and meeting people
Fear is a universal problem and something that everyone experiences. Our bodies are wired to experience fear in dangerous situations. This is useful when it inspires a healthy caution in physically dangerous situations; however it is counterproductive when applied to much of our modern lives. Allowed to reign free, fear is a poison which shuts down all our systems and is clear to observers. The only fears that are healthy are those which our intellects leash in and manage and a secondly, a devout fear of God. Earthly fear is a tool given to us by God; An alarm system. Use it as such but don’t let it control your life.
Fear of God is a different story. This is not trembling in a corner fear. It is a healthy reverence and Awe of His power. It is wonderfully empowering to release yourself to a Fear of God. http://www.gotquestions.org/fear-God.html says the following about the Fear of God:
“For the unbeliever, the fear of God is the fear of the judgment of God and eternal death, which is eternal separation from God (Luke 12:5; Hebrews 10:31). For the believer, the fear of God is something much different. The believer’s fear is reverence of God. Hebrews 12:28-29 is a good description of this: “Therefore, since we are receiving a kingdom that cannot be shaken, let us be thankful, and so worship God acceptably with reverence and awe, for our ’God is a consuming fire.’” This reverence and awe is exactly what the fear of God means for Christians. This is the motivating factor for us to surrender to the Creator of the Universe.
Proverbs 1:7 declares, “The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge.” Until we understand who God is and develop a reverential fear of Him, we cannot have true wisdom. True wisdom comes only from understanding who God is and that He is holy, just, and righteous. Deuteronomy 10:12, 20-21 records, “And now, O Israel, what does the LORD your God ask of you but to fear the LORD your God, to walk in all his ways, to love him, to serve the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul. Fear the LORD your God and serve him. Hold fast to him and take your oaths in his name. He is your praise; he is your God, who performed for you those great and awesome wonders you saw with your own eyes.” The fear of God is the basis for our walking in His ways, serving Him, and, yes, loving Him.
Some redefine the fear of God for believers to “respecting” Him. While respect is definitely included in the concept of fearing God, there is more to it than that. A biblical fear of God, for the believer, includes understanding how much God hates sin and fearing His judgment on sin—even in the life of a believer. Hebrews 12:5-11 describes God’s discipline of the believer. While it is done in love (Hebrews 12:6), it is still a fearful thing. As children, the fear of discipline from our parents no doubt prevented some evil actions. The same should be true in our relationship with God. We should fear His discipline, and therefore seek to live our lives in such a way that pleases Him.
Believers are not to be scared of God. We have no reason to be scared of Him. We have His promise that nothing can separate us from His love (Romans 8:38-39). We have His promise that He will never leave us or forsake us (Hebrews 13:5). Fearing God means having such a reverence for Him that it has a great impact on the way we live our lives. The fear of God is respecting Him, obeying Him, submitting to His discipline, and worshiping Him in awe.”
If we have released ourselves to true worship and fear of God, earthly fears become as nothing. Faith allows us to release our earthly fears to God with the full knowledge that His plans for us are wise and beyond our imagining. Empowered by Faith, we can overcome our earthly fears and live up to the potential that God has built into us. It is easy to imagine God as a perfect being but somehow that does not always translate in our minds to the thought that His creations are perfect as well. We are God’s favorite creations. The workmanship of a perfect being. How could we be anything other than perfect, according to His will?
The subject of fear has consumed the thoughts of wise thinkers through the ages.
“The best remedy for those who are afraid, lonely or unhappy is to go outside, somewhere where they can be quiet, alone with the heavens, nature and God. Because only then does one feel that all is as it should be and that God wishes to see people happy, amidst the simple beauty of nature.”
- Anne Frank
“Don’t waste life in doubts and fears; spend yourself on the work before you, well assured that the right performance of this hour’s duties will be the best preparation for the hours and ages that will follow it.”
- Ralph Wlado Emerson
“Ultimately we know deeply that the other side of every fear is a freedom.”
- Marilyn Ferguson
“Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.”
- Marie Curie
“And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”
- Marianne Williamson
“If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment.”
- Marcus Aurelius
“Don’t be afraid to go out on a limb. That’s where the fruit is.”
- H. Jackson Browne
“You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You must do the things you think you cannot do.”
- Eleanor Roosevelt
“Only when we are no longer afraid do we begin to live.”
- Dorothy Thompson
“People living deeply have no fear of death.”
- Anais Nin
In closing, I encourage you to explore your behaviours, your self and your fears and your relationship with God during this difficult time. Release your earthly fears to God and replace them with a healthy fear of Him, an Awe of his power, a consuming reverence. Fill yourself with the Spirit of God and turn your earthly fears into power and enablement. Be confident in two things: One that you are the perfect creation of God and that, like a loving father, He will always love you, despite your transgressions. Secondly that He has plans for his creation that oyu likely do not understand. What is important it that you have Faith in him and do not depend upon your understanding. If you empower yourself, in reverence, with God’s spirit, you can acheive anything that is in alignment with His will.
I truly wish you all the best of luck in your job searches and personal journeys. If there is anything I can do to assist you, please let me know.
Yours in Service,
- Michael Korn, PMP
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